Burden Sharing

For a Sunday newspaper a few decades ago, Charles Shultz drew Charlie Brown and Peppermint Patty under a shade tree, just talking. Patty turned and asked, What do you think security is, Chuck? He answered, Security? Security is sleeping in the backseat of the car…When you have been somewhere with your mom and dad, and its night, and you’re riding home in the car, you can sleep in the backseat…You don’t have to worry about anything…Your mom and dad are in the front seat, and they do all the worrying…They take care of everything. A smiling Patty says, That’s real neat. 

 But it doesn’t last, sighed Charlie Brown. Suddenly, you’re grown up, and it can never be that way again! Suddenly it’s over and you’ll never get to sleep in the backseat again. Never!  Never?  Absolutely never!   Hold my hand, Chuck!!

Sometimes we feel we need to hold someone’s hand to see us through. Peppermint Patty was growing up. One day she would be driving the car all by herself. The famous writer Anonymous once said that a friend is one “who comes in when the whole world goes out.” Each of us has our own burdens to bear. But there are those times when someone comes into our day with an overburdensome load to bear. In Galatians 6:1-5 Paul encourages us to lend the helping hand when others have stumbled over the temptations on their path or the loneliness of carrying too much for too long. 

The difficult words for me are found in verse 2: … you who are spiritual, restore such a one with a spirit of gentleness. It is far easier for me to tell someone how to “fix” themselves than to support them as they face the next shaky steps. It is far easier to hand over a band-aid than to wrap them in gentleness. It is far easier for me to confess their sins with a promise of forgiveness than to deal with my own sins along the way. “You who are spiritual” recognizes that each of us may be one of the more spiritual people that someone knows. “Restore such a one” recognizes that healing often begins painfully and slowly.  Burden-sharing can be hard work because our own loads are so heavy. Let’s lighten the load together.

Keep healthy. Pray mightily. Enjoy your life today. Extend a hand. And let’s experience the love and power of God together.

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